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  • My Resilience Is Generational

    A former co-worker of mine mentioned seeing a former assistant manager at The Pleasure Chest named Alex Valdes, but goes on social media by the name Reagan Holiday. They said that they saw her at an event and somehow, my name came up. My former co-worker said that Alex said,…

  • Sex Is A Dance

    I see sex as a dance. I believe we all do. The motion. The intimacy of the act. The intent of connecting physically and spiritually… Even if it is just for a one-night stand, or a more fleeting moment like a darkroom tryst.

  • Gay Males, Learn BJ Etiquette

    Believe it or not, in any form of social interaction, there is an etiquette to follow. Many of which are based in common sense and common courtesy. The only ones who will deny this, or outright ignore it are those who are self-entitled. Well, how one plays at a sex…

  • Why I’ve Rarely Played With Black Males In Gay Spaces

    I’m sure many have seen me in gay play spaces over the years. However, one thing they probably have not seen too often is me playing with Black males. There are some reasons for that. And those reasons come in stages.

  • Not My Proudest Moment, But Definitely A Provoked One

    I laid into someone calling them the N-word. And not ending with an “-a”, but a hard “-er”. Shocking since anyone who knows me knows that is a word I hardly ever say in any connotation. And if I say it with an “-er”, it means you reeeeeally pissed me…

  • I’m Against Poppers… But ALSO This Crackdown On Them

    I’m sure by now that even LGBTQ+ people who don’t use poppers know about the recent search and seizure of the brand of poppers, Double Scorpio. And with that, many might believe that those who are against poppers (like myself) are praising the Trump administration for this action and hoping…

  • What Led To Well Bred

    One day, I decided to put this idea into a poem. As lyrics started swirling around in my head, I also thought about how I would want to feel after bottoming in a gangbang. Then 2 words from a sweatshirt I bought from YesHomoApparel.com came to mind. The 2 words…

  • The Last Straws To ‘STFU When I F***.’

    While my poem “STFU When I F***.” is new, it is unfortunate how the events inspiring it are not at all new. So far from new that years ago, I wrote a “Sex Party Etiquette” article on my old blog titled, “Sex Party Etiquette: Who Hired The Commentator“. But as…

  • Stop The đź’©, Your Str8 Hook-Up Is NOT Straight

    I have long said that there is nothing wrong with a gay male having sexual fantasies about a straight male. It is how my erotica series for Kiiroo, “Tales of a Male Straight Porn Actor’s Husband” was born. However, there are some gay males who take those fantasies too far.…

  • Proudly A Content Creator, Proudly Without An Alt

    Proudly A Content Creator, Proudly Without An Alt

    It has become quite common now for adult content creators to have an alternate account on social media, commonly referred to as an “alt”. Many do so as a means to hide from their present or future primary employers. And in other fields, it is to keep their primary career…