Still seeing beneath the surface of all we’ve been told about sex, life & love.

  • Gay Males, Learn BJ Etiquette

    Believe it or not, in any form of social interaction, there is an etiquette to follow. Many of which are based in common sense and common courtesy. The only ones who will deny this, or outright ignore it are those who are self-entitled. Well, how one plays at a sex party is no different. I Read more

  • Why I’ve Rarely Played With Black Males In Gay Spaces

    I’m sure many have seen me in gay play spaces over the years. However, one thing they probably have not seen too often is me playing with Black males. There are some reasons for that. And those reasons come in stages. Read more

  • Not My Proudest Moment, But Definitely A Provoked One

    I laid into someone calling them the N-word. And not ending with an “-a”, but a hard “-er”. Shocking since anyone who knows me knows that is a word I hardly ever say in any connotation. And if I say it with an “-er”, it means you reeeeeally pissed me off… Read more

  • I’m Against Poppers… But ALSO This Crackdown On Them

    I’m sure by now that even LGBTQ+ people who don’t use poppers know about the recent search and seizure of the brand of poppers, Double Scorpio. And with that, many might believe that those who are against poppers (like myself) are praising the Trump administration for this action and hoping for it to continue. Well, Read more

  • What Led To Well Bred

    One day, I decided to put this idea into a poem. As lyrics started swirling around in my head, I also thought about how I would want to feel after bottoming in a gangbang. Then 2 words from a sweatshirt I bought from YesHomoApparel.com came to mind. The 2 words were… WELL BRED. Read more

  • The Last Straws To ‘STFU When I F***.’

    While my poem “STFU When I F***.” is new, it is unfortunate how the events inspiring it are not at all new. So far from new that years ago, I wrote a “Sex Party Etiquette” article on my old blog titled, “Sex Party Etiquette: Who Hired The Commentator“. But as with all such articles and Read more